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La chapelle de St. Brendan \u00e0 Stadacona<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Padre\u2019s Corner: A photo I hope you never see<\/b><\/h3>\n

By Padre Capt Mark SG Sceviour, <\/b>
\n<\/b>Aum\u00f4nier de la flotte<\/span><\/p>\n

This week I went and got my media photos taken. You all know the ones I\u2019m talking about. When my wife asked how my day was, I responded \u2018Not bad, had some photos taken that I hope you never see.\u2019 That took her by surprise. The normalcy of taking \u2018funeral photos\u2019 was not normal for her. And that\u2019s when it struck me, our military lives are different from most Canadians or even members of my family.<\/span><\/p>\n

It also got me thinking, have I prepared my family in case the worst does happen? Sure, I\u2019ve signed all the right documents (mainly because the military forces me to do that once a year) but have I had a real conversation about unlimited liability? Have I had a talk about my wishes for end of life and funeral care? Have I really had the conversation about the fact that my employer is the military and that I sail on a warship?<\/span><\/p>\n

The answer is most of us have not had those conversations. They aren\u2019t fun. Why would we take the precious family time we have and have morbid conversations? Because if we don\u2019t, it\u2019s not fair to the ones we leave behind.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve asked many sailors if their families know their wishes when it comes to funeral plans. The answer I get most often is \u2018I\u2019m not bothered by that stuff, they can do what they want,\u2019 Or \u2018I don\u2019t want to burden them with a laundry list, so I\u2019ve said nothing.\u2019 Take it from me, a Chaplain who\u2019s journeyed with many families when they are facing those hard difficult decisions \u2013 not knowing what you would have wanted is the worst. You have to give them something.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel you can\u2019t sit down and have a face to face conversation with your loved one(s) about end of life decisions, then write it down. Put it in the file cabinet and tell them it\u2019s there in case the worst outcome happens. If you can sit down with your loved one(s), please do. Talk to them about some of your wishes. Talk about whether you want a cremation or a casket. A traditional funeral, a celebration of life or both.<\/span><\/p>\n

What if you really don\u2019t care? Still give them something. Give them some achievable tasks. Maybe you want everyone to wear Maple Leafs jerseys to your wake, or you want a confetti cannon to go off as your remains are removed from the church\/funeral home? Or maybe you have a favorite beer or beverage that you want everyone to raise a cheer with. Maybe you have some ideas of the songs you\u2019d like played as your photo slide deck plays. Let them know.<\/span>I hope my wife never sees my deployment media photo. If she does, I hope she\u2019s comforted in knowing that I would have loved seeing my friends and family all wearing red clown noses, raising a pint, and singing <\/span>\u2018Home for a Rest\u2019<\/span><\/i> as loud as they can.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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